Many moons ago, a few thousand of you filled out a survey about dating online.A few moons after that, we compiled all the best tips and tricks shared by folks who date men.NEW: Multi-Dating.● Back in the day, there was only one type of steak on every menu: beef. Now you can see as many women as you can fit into your schedule. But read the small print: The same rules apply to women. Now you can try venison steak, tuna steak, even tofu steak... “So if a gorgeous woman is on the hunt for a date and you can respond quickly, you might strike it lucky with a woman who’s actually way out of your league.” OLD: Talking Dirty.NEW: Sexting.● Talking dirty had one major advantage over sexting—you got to see her response.“Whisper in a woman’s ear that you’d love to see her naked and she’ll probably either stiffen and move away slightly, or giggle and blush,” Kerner says.
Well, now it’s time to dump some obsolete dating rules, too..you want to win. “Most women would probably say they don’t stare at men’s bodies in the same way men do women, but they’re mistaken,” says sex therapist Ian Kerner, author of .But with texting, you’ve got only her words to go on.” And even then she has more time to consider her response, giving her more control over the situation.That’s why you have to take extra care with the timing and content of your texts.So show me you respect my time and let me know things in advance.Whether we're in the early getting to know phase or deeply committed, my little boo thing – whatever – if you want my time you have to value it.” -- Natelege W., 27“I'm always surprised when they do the little things, like bringing my favorite candy or one flower. Listening will help you figure out the small gestures and surprises like saying "let's go to Chic-fil-a and a movie," because you know it's one of my favorite things.” -- Ashlee D., 23“A lot of what women do is to get the attention of men.