So when one person decides he/she isn’t interested in pursuing the relationship further, it can be tempting to want to avoid confrontation or hurt feelings.Normally considerate people will justify completely disappearing by saying they don’t want to hurt the other person.They convince themselves it is better to just fade away.They reason that vanishing without a trace is better than rejecting someone out right…right? By not addressing the situation, you will often succeed at exactly the thing you want to avoid: hurting someone.While the truth definitely needs to be told, the more you can embed this truth in a dignified context, the easier it will be understood and received. Use your knowledge of the person and your interactions to guide what you say. If you need some help with the actual words you use, here’s a good place to start: "This is not easy for me to say, and perhaps it won’t be easy for you to hear.
If you're just looking for sex, then carry on, but if not, how can you tell if a guy is really right for the long-term?Below, she takes us through a relationship reality check to keep your head clear at every stage of the relationship: On the first date...Frances' first-date trick (known as her "Heartache Prevention Question") is simply to ask him, point blank, if he believes in X (X being your ultimate dream and goal, be it monogamy, marriage, having a family, or running away to join the circus).“At this point, I get more satisfaction — physically, spiritually, emotionally — from a smile, a laugh, a warm conversation or a really sexy look," she told the magazine. It's not always easy to tell the difference between a guy who's seriously into you and one who's wrapped up in the moment. Lust is a powerful thing, and some men will do just about anything in the sweet spot between "nice to meet you" and "sex." Closing the gap between point A and B can be a goal some men pursue with the same vigor as Roger Federer practicing for, playing in, and attempting to win Wimbledon, for example.
I certainly hope you can understand because I enjoyed meeting you and wish you the best.