If I am not willing to convert to my potential spouse's religion, how can I ask him or her to convert to my religion? How do I plan to deal with my children's identity crisis? What will I do if my non-Jewish spouse surprises me by deciding to raise the children according to his or her religion? Do I think it is fair to create confusion in my children in an area so vital as their basic identity?
Alright Lordz and Ladiez (everything sounds better with a z), are you sick of talking about how weird Kenyon dating culture is? Now that I'm "available," I'm wondering what are some good guidelines in searching for Mr. The following questions are an effective manner to think about my relationship and the potential problems. What is my main reason or reasons for marrying this particular person? Am I afraid that if I do not marry this person I will have a hard time finding someone else to marry? Is my main motivation in marrying this person because of a strong feeling of physical attraction? How can I be certain that my strong feelings are really love and not merely infatuation? Do I have any ulterior motives for marrying this person (such as money or status)? In what ways might I be mistaken about the real personality and attitudes of this person? Is it possible that my intended marriage might be a rebellion against my parents? and have been out of the dating scene for a few years. There a lot of factors to consider, and unfortunately, with the divorce rate running over 50 percent, it seems that many people are not asking the right questions. Does my potential spouse have any ulterior motives? In reality, will this marriage increase or decrease my problems? Are I getting married to solve my own personal problems? If yes, how certain am I that this marriage will solve those problems? What role does the marriage of my friends play in my wanting to get married right now? What am I gaining by marrying this particular person? What am I losing out by marrying this particular person? Do I think that my potential spouse might be painting an unrealistic picture of him or herself and that I might be marrying an illusion? Does my physical attraction for my potential spouse prevent me from being aware of problems which may cause difficulties later? While you could turn this into a fun party game if you're hanging out with a bunch of other singles, you could also use a list of dating questions like this to get to know someone you're already interested in but don't know that well.Quiz your date when you first get together for coffee or dinner and let the conversation flow from there.
Are there any religious practices of my potential spouse that bother me? Do I have any religious practices that bother my potential spouse? If I have a boy, would I want him to be circumcised?