I am in my mid-forties and I have been online dating off and on for about 2½ years and dating in general for 4 years.I am a year and a half out of a relationship and in that time, I have found only one guy I was interested in but he did the vanishing act.As a fan of fast cars, Dean began driving lessons at 17 and passed his test first time.He then found love with a girl named Emily, who would later become his fiancee, although sadly the relationship ended earlier this year.I get contacted by a fair number of guys in their 20’s and most I don’t respond to because I just feel it won’t go anywhere. But I still feel that maybe it’s a mistake…what do I really have in common with this guy? However, if you’re looking for good, clean (and not-so-clean) fun with a young stallion, you can have an amazing time. However, if you’re looking for good, clean (and not-so-clean) fun with a young stallion, you can have an amazing time. I’m here to observe society and report back to you how things USUALLY work out. And when all my friends would make fun of me and say, “Why would you date an older woman when you could date a younger woman? As far as I’m concerned, every woman is better at 28 than at 23, better at 33 than at 28, and so on. You’re at the home buying, 401K saving, family planning phase of life – for MOST 46-year-olds.Recently, however, I was contacted by a guy in his mid-twenties and I was impressed by his profile…he’s mature, intelligent, articulate and attractive. And for every Demi and Ashton (Celebrities, They’re Just Like Us! ”, I’d say, “Why would you date a younger woman when you can date an older woman? Now, there is a flaw in this system – the biological clock – which is much worse at 38 than at 23. Hey, if you still have the juice to hang with kids, go crazy. Put another way, there’s a very good reason that you don’t see many 25 year old men with 45 year old women.Over the years, I’ve learnt—albeit slowly, it seems—about many mistakes I’ve been doing.Not paying attention to women’s body language, not trying to go in for the first kiss, it’s a long laundry list of things I go “Crap, I should have done that! But despite my efforts (and the assistance of friends over the years), I have never had a girlfriend or sex.
I would proceed with caution, if you’re looking for something more than a fling with a young stud.
Dawn said: 'When Dean was about six months old I noticed he was a lot smaller than he should have been.
He was still wearing clothes for a 0-3-month-old baby but the health visitors told me not to worry.
I think that my situation (and that of other virgins in my predicament) is a little different in some ways, but also the same in others when it comes to relationships, sex, et cetera.
I am an only child, and my parents are kind of old fashioned and raised me as such.
I don’t usually try to go for/get a kiss on the first date, and I don’t try to force sex to happen right away.